4 Oktober 2009

If it doesn't kill you, It will make you stronger.

“Life can be sooo hard at times” that was a true statement, but sometimes we tend to make it much harder, that's the fact! In other side, altough we made it harder, but still, we can deal with it. interesting aite?

I was always amazed at the inversed changes of the human spirit in the midst of misfortune. Although they were hard pressed to realize it because of the trauma of whatever befell them, most people demonstrated amazing strength! (Salute! Cheers!)

Stress? (I've searched in Wikipedia because i can't interpreted it by my self) I would define stress as the result of an event that occurs over which we have little or no control. So It would seem that the keyword here is “control”. The more that we need to maintain our need to be in control, the less able we are to deal with whatever the stress is that might come our way, Agree? The reason for this is that our control tends to limit our ability to accept what has happened. The reality of the incident is, of course, very difficult to accept. However, it did happen! Wow. Once we can accept reality for what it really is, we can then begin to apply whatever remedies to the incident that might be necessary.

Most of us, have a great deal of difficulty accepting reality and try to change it. We call that avoidance. It’s like a “temporary fix” that helps us to feel better for a short period of time (only for a "short-period", bold it!). Avoidance is a normal, natural humance that allows us to recover from certain traumas. However, i’m talking about those who tend to use avoidance as a “way of life” that can severely incompatible with their life. We need to be aware that avoidance doesn’t change the reality of what happened at all and, if time is the fundamental in dealing with a situation, then we’ve “boxed ourselves in” by doing that. 

Sorry for my repeatedly digress. I dunno what i should write furthermore.

done. -rhp


This word maybe not really familiar for us in our daily life. Im quite interesting bout this human concept cause may some of us had it (without we already realized). Ok, what is Alter-ego? alter ago is another side to your personality, one that most people don't see. Somebody with Schizophrenia or MPD (Multiple Personality Disorder) has their brain divided into two different people. One of them is the person, the other is not a real person who the brain has "invented". In extremely rare cases, there are three personalities. Let's check out for an easy example, there are so many superhero stories are filled with alter egos. Superman and Clark Kent, Batman and Bruce Wayne, Spiderman and Peter Parker, etc etc.

Having an alter ego at times can be beneficial, provided it does not go overboard. It gives the person a sense of completeness. However, if the alter ego is more perfect than your real self, then it can result in low self-esteem. It is also at times seen that if the alter ego is dominating, then it can prevent a person from leading a normal life. If you have an alter ego then it is important that you don’t let it dominate over your personal life. This can affect your friends and family in a negative manner. (that's for TRUE!)

It is important that you talk to the person suffering from alter ego about their goals and ambitions, this can help you in knowing the hidden desires and you can help the person come out of the alter ego world. Hope this simple article  may useful for us.

cheers. -rhp